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Sardines 4 Breakfast and Anti-Smoothisms

June 30, 2016 By Lauren

sardinesWhile sitting outside on our tiny terrace the other day polishing off my breakfast of potato salad and oily sardines in the late morning sun, I got to thinking about the first meal of the day and how certain foods–like pancakes, oats, eggs, pop-tarts, cheerios, bacon–are considered appropriate while others–like, ahem, sardines–are decidedly not.

Some of this is cultural, and, like much of food culture, also construct.  I remember reading somewhere that before the industrial boom following WWII the typical Mediterranean breakfast consisted of, not croissant and Nutella, but whatever soup or stew was left-over from the night before.

The category of “breakfast food”, much like the category of “food for kids”, is rooted, in some ways, not in tradition but in marketing, sniffing out new ways to sell more things.

Of late, that thing seems to be the smoothie and all the apparatus that accompany it ($600 blender, protein powder, imported banana, avocado, carton of coconut water, etc.).

And while there’s nothing inherently wrong with cooling down with a glass of blitzed fruit every once in a while, I wonder whether, as morning routine, it’s as nourishing as it’s been made out to be.

Anti-Smoothisms

My ideal breakfast is a combination of the big 3: protein, fat and complex carbohydrates.  It nourishes me, eliminates the need for expensive nutraceutical supplements (ahem, Omega-3s) or processed powders (looking at you, hemp).  My ideal breakfast is warm, solid, something to sink my teeth into, to prime my digestive system for a day’s worth of work.  It’s sourced with a mind toward sustainability, from foods found in my region.

The smoothie is none of these things.

In fact, I believe it’s one of the least nourishing ways you can start you day (pop-tarts excluded).

Most of the ingredients are raw fruits or vegetables (like spinach, kale) which are actually quite difficult to digest; it’s usually served ice-cold which slows down the rate of digestion (the reason nutritionists never drink ice-water with meals); it’s gulped down, not chewed which makes it awfully challenging for our digestive systems to be primed and ready to break foods down.

And from my northern-hemisphere-residing perspective, it’s not the most nourishing choice for our communities (both local + global), either.

Enter the plate of breakfast sardines.

Sardine Me Up, Scotty

I always have a stash of tinned sardines in my cupboard.  They’re one of my favorite “fast-foods” because even when my fridge has been totally cleaned out, they provide plenty in the way of nourishment and satisfaction.

One 3 oz. tin contains over 338% of our daily requirement of B12, 87% of selenium, 61% of omega 3s EPA and DHA, and 44% of vitamin D, supporting our skin-health, bone-health, heart-health and mental-health and keeping us energized.

While studying holistic nutrition, we were constantly talking about omega 3s, and the manifold benefits of supplementing with fish oil.  One of our teachers was actually a consultant for a nutraceutical company (which shows the sort of conflict of interest that is rampant within the highly unregulated holistic health community, but I digress), and even gave a presentation on omega 3s where the take-away was, ultimately, to buy this brand’s fish oil (which was, conveniently, sold at the reception desk) (digressing again).

At the time I remember thinking, but what about sardines?

As opposed to fish oils which are easily susceptible to rancidity and are typically quite expensive, sardines are safely preserved in olive oil or salt and, even in the fanciest grocery store, will run you less than a drink at that coffeehouse named after a character in Moby Dick.

They’re one of the more sustainable fish you can eat, with small amounts of by-catch and damage to the surrounding environment.  They’re preserved in tins and can be kept for a long time, meaning that they don’t require rapid or refrigerated transport, even if you live hundreds of miles from the sea.

And, they also happen to be delicious.

Now at this point you’re probably thinking, no, gross, and what about that smell?  Sardines have a less than stellar reputation, that’s for sure.  But when’s the last time you tried them out for yourself?  It may take some time, but dress them with a generous squeeze of lemon and that combination of oil, citrus and sea just might make you a believer.

This is not to say you’re to reorder your breakfast routine, entirely.  I’m something of a breakfast anomaly because I rise early and tend not to feel ready to eat until much later (as opposed to Lu who can polish off tartine after tartine first thing), so it’s no surprise that I prefer my breakfast on the savory side of the spectrum.

This is just an attempt at broadening the definition of breakfast, giving you more options so you can discover what really makes you feel good, not what’s being sold as such (#sponsoredbysardines) (kidding).

And who knows?  Maybe a sardine or two will find its way onto your next breakfast plate ;-p

Filed Under: Nutrition, Sidenotes Tagged With: breakfast, holistic nutrition, institute of holistic nutrition, nutrition, omega 3s, sardines

Self-Compassion + the Herbal Bath

June 12, 2016 By Lauren

This week’s post builds on last week’s post on trauma and disease, so if you haven’t already please take a few moments to engage over there.

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In honor of Lu’s work Black Water Ballad winning the Swiss Photo Awards, I’m posting a few photos from that series here.  Same Quebec countryside as last week but in Summer.

As I walk along this spiral path of healing, I sometimes stumble, knock against a tree that’s fallen in my path, trip when some old stone I’ve been carrying around with me for too long falls loose.  Maybe I bruise, maybe a section of skin breaks open and I bleed.  Maybe I feel discouraged, worn down, blue.

This is not a unique experience, but a collective one, one that everyone experiences at some point along their path and the big question is not if this will happen but instead when this does happen, how do I respond?

Do I  cry out and curse the tree, the stone, the path and spit at the ground?  Do I  press self against earth and curl inward and stay fixed as a tree stump?  Do I kiss my bruise, clean my wound, take a deep breath, give myself the time I need to gather myself and continue on?

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To be completely real, more times than not I seem to choose the first two reactions, I respond with anger or grief, I feel alone in my suffering, passing this phrase back and forth between palms: why me?

Buddhists say that suffering is caused by two things: wanting to change oneself and wanting to change one’s circumstances.  Suffering is inevitable; how we react to our suffering is, however, subject to change, up to us. 

For some of us, those who scored higher than a 0 on the ACE test for example, anger or grief can be our instinctual, automatic response; it happens so immediately, comes over us like a wave and can almost feel as if the emotion chooses us, not the other way around.  Whatever pain we’re facing can remind us of past pains and can feel far bigger than stubbed toe, scraped knee, bump in road.

For others, the third option, being kind to oneself, recognizing that this stumbling is just part of the path, showing oneself compassion, is the natural response.

Lucky ducks.

I imagine these folk were taught self-compassion at a young age; if a glass of milk were spilled it was just that, a spilled glass of milk, no one’s fault and no big deal.  No need for anger, or shame, or guilt, or grief, or worry, or fear or any of the other emotions that can grow wild in prickly households.

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Choosing Self-Compassion

If we tend to respond to stress, to obstacles in our path with anger, with grief, if we tend to over-react, if our emotions come flooding out, in blazes, we can recognize that our nervous systems were, in a sense, programmed to respond this way.  It’s not our fault.

Most likely this response has affected not only ourselves–our sense of self-worth, our ease with ourselves and engagement with our world–but also those we love, our sweethearts, our best friends; our inner circles.

Maybe it’s pushed them away, maybe it’s pushed us further from our authentic selves, maybe it has even recreated the same prickly environment we thought we’d said goodbye to for good.

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The first step to choosing self-compassion is to start to forgive ourselves for being so hard on ourselves and on others.  (Much easier said than done, I realize).  To start to forgive ourselves for not always responding the way we’d like to respond.  To start to accept ourselves–our nervous systems, our response patterns–as we are, in all our messy and lovely humanness.

The second step, which really is what helps us achieve the first, is developing a mindful self-compassion practice–loving self-kindness meditation, metta meditation, even a walking meditation for the folks who can’t sit still.  I linked to a few resources to get you started at the bottom of last week’s post.  I’m talking about taking 20 or so minutes each day to start untangling some of that programming; to give yourself some of that fundamental love and acceptance that you may have missed out on.

The third step is to choose a ritual, something you can easily find time for at least once a week, a practice that is deeply nourishing, something that makes you feel good, deeply good, safe, at ease, deeply loved because self-compassion is really showing yourself the same care, the same love that you would your best friend or pet or favorite house-plant.

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Easing into Self-Compassion w/ an Herbal Bath

Which brings me to a ritual I discovered this past Fall during a particularly blue period.

Bathing in plant medicine, taking a weekly (okay, so maybe more like 3x a week) herbal bath is something that has eased aching body, heavy heart, monkey mind.  Herbs have a way of shifting energy, moving what has been stuck, clearing what needs to be cleared, making space for what needs to be sown.  Herbs have a way of showing you that you’ve been holding the seeds, those seeds of love, self-love, self-compassion in your own hands all along.

There are a few ways to go about this ritual:

  • One is to bring a hefty cup of your herb (fresh or dried) of choice to a soft boil and simmer (w/ a lid on) for around 20 or so minutes, then strain into your bath.
  • Another is to make an herbal infusion, to add a cup of herb to a quart jar and fill w/ boiling water, cover and let infuse for 4-8 hours, then strain into your bath.
  • Yet another is to wrap some cheesecloth around a cup of your herb, fasten it tightly and toss that in your tub as it fills w/ hot water.
  • If you don’t mind the mess, you can even just add the herb directly to your tub (but this will get messy).

I’ve written before about the powers of the kava bath, lately I’ve been enjoying rosemary and wild rose baths (I use a cup of each).  Two warming, cheering herbs that have a way of moving things for me–circulation, creativity, joy.

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Maybe there’s a particular plant that you’re drawn to (white pine, sage, oatstraw, linden), one that has a way of moving things for you, your particular constitution, the emotions you’re working with.

Or maybe a ritual like an herbal bath isn’t the kind of ritual that will nourish you.  It’s just one example among many to help ease your way toward more self-compassion.

Here’s to a summer season of being kind to ourselves, accepting ourselves as we are, nourishing ourselves, loving ourselves, and extending all those loving feelings toward others.

Filed Under: Herb, Herbalism, Sidenotes Tagged With: herbal bath, herbalism, herbs, meditation, mindfulness, ritual, self compassion, self love

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